Your Self-Worth is Not Tied to Your Achievements

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You compare your success and progress with others who you think are on the same level as you or a bit above you and it distressed you?

Is this you?

You are not your achievements. I bet you have never heard this before, so it might feel unusual.

No, don’t get it wrong; your achievements are great. In fact, they are awesome. You’ve been able to publish your first book, you’ve got that scholarship, and you just gave birth to your first child. All of these are huge achievements, but they are not you.

Do you know why?

We often tell ourselves and others “you are not your failures”. Why then should your achievements be the only source of your self-confidence? We are used to tying our self-worth to our achievements, and this is why we are always affected by a failure.

If you are not your failures and you are not your achievements,

Then who are you?

#1 You are an incredible person who chose Self-care, got values, grit, brilliance, and skills.

#2 When you know this, speak positive affirmations to yourself. Say I am the best; I will succeed, look into the mirror and say them with confidence.

#3 While it is okay to feel good about your achievements, basing your entire self-worth on your success is like building your house on a foundation that will soon crash.

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So, sail from the safe harbor! Discover yourself. When you know who you are, and you believe in the magic of yourself, you will be able to experience peace and also maintain self-control through life’s inevitable good and bad times.

Look for Smooth Sailing!

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(Guest Blogger Traylan Wilturner) Resting During a Pandemic

Resting During a Pandemic

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As we all know the COVID-19 has made its debut all around the world. This virus has caused sore throats and high fevers in more than 400 thousand people leading to over 20 thousand deaths. This more than enough information to cause panic. Although there’s yet to be a cure, there has been more than 100 thousand recoveries from the virus. (These numbers are available on worldometers.info) Are these odds enough to give a sense of relief and calm the rest of the population during what seems like a very scary time?

Just Breathe and Quarantine

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-Don’t stress. Becoming ill is often something that’s out of our control, but we do have control over our hygiene. Washing our hands should already be part of our natural duties. Do you really keep track of how often you do? Sure after using the restroom or touching something disgusting. Maybe this task should be done more often especially during a world spread virus attack. If practicing good hygiene is already a part of your routine then why stress it?

-Social Distancing. I’m sure we’ve all been told to stay at home, try not to be in public when not necessary and to keep at least a 6 feet distance from others. Not only will these very important steps help you with avoiding this virus, but also allows you some “Me Time”. So basically this is the perfect time for you to avoid whatever drama and sickness others shall bring!

-Social Media. What else is there to do while stuck at home? Turning to Instagram, Facebook and Twitter may add a lot more stress to the situation than you may realize. These outlets are full of fake news, nasty opinions and scare stories. If you need information or updates on what’s happening what an accredited news broadcast. If you need entertainment to feed you boredom try exercising, reading a book or even that “to do list” you haven’t had time to get to.

Don’t allow this pandemic to stress you.

Embrace it.

Believe you can handle it.

Believe that you will be ok.

-Maria Shriver

Do Not Fear The Inevitable!