Showing posts with label self- worth. Show all posts
Showing posts with label self- worth. Show all posts

Wednesday, August 10, 2022

You Are More Powerful Than You Think

 

You Are More Powerful Than You Think

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You need to remind your kids every day that they are more powerful than they think. The effects of bullying leave kids feeling confused, helpless, and vulnerable. Aside from teaching your kids how to be assertive, you also need to build their self-confidence and help them improve their social skills. Let them know there are proactive actions against bullying, and no one should intimidate them.

Eleanor Roosevelt once said, “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.

Use these tips to train your kids:

1. Ignore…

There is no need to care so much about people who doubt you or try to intimidate you. Not reacting when someone does something hurtful is an effective response to bullying. Teach your kids to ignore and keep their head high when someone tries to bully them.

2. They should stand up for themselves…

Do you know some bullies look for victims that will not say anything at all? But if your kid is assertive, strong, and confident, no bully will walk over them.

3. Avoid hotspots…

At times, all it takes to overcome bullying is to stay away from places where bullies hang out. The hotspots include locker rooms, vacant hallways, bathrooms, and back of the bus.

4. Report to an adult…

Kids are vulnerable, and they keep quiet when things like this happen. Be open with your kids. Understand their fears and let them know you have their best interests at heart.

 

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The greatest gift a parent can give their children is to empower them and foster core values like respect, kindness, compassion, and self-worth.

 

 


 

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Wednesday, July 28, 2021

 

How to Practice Self-Care

Practicing self-care does not require a lot of time and effort. It is about understanding what works for you. Some might prefer yoga, while others prefer going for a hike. The idea basically is indulging in those things that help you recuperate and maintain the inner balance and peace you need on your inside.

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It is encouraged that you have a list of your favorite activities that help you improve your mood, reduce stress, and help you function optimally. Self-care is self-preservation. It helps boost your productivity, which in turn boosts your self-confidence.

Rather than react rashly on a stressful day, you could quickly go through your list of self-care activities and pick one that will help you reduce your stress at that moment, and ultimately help you stay calm amid the stress. Doing this results in you successfully practicing self-control during an uncontrollable situation.

 

How to Practice Self-Care

·         Practice routine exercise.

·         Practice healthy eating habits.

·         Surround yourself with healthy relationships.

·         Always ensure you have enough time to rest daily.

·         Create time to indulge in activities that make you happy.

·         Understand how your body works and plan your activities around it in order to boost productivity.

·         Say positive words to yourself in an unpalatable situation. This will boost your self-worth.

 

Amy Leigh Mercree said: “When we self-regulate well, we are better able to control the trajectory of our emotional lives and resulting actions based on our values and sense of purpose.”

So, practicing self-care is self-regulating your body and mind so that you can be the very best version of yourself in life. No one can do it for you; you have to rise and say no to losing your inner balance in the face of any challenging situation.

 

 


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Thursday, July 15, 2021

Why You Should Practice Self-Care

 

Why You Should Practice Self-Care

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Sam Owen said: “How we care for ourselves gives our brain messages that shape our self-worth, so we must care for ourselves in every way, every day.” This is why you should always practice self-care.

Self-care is an important way of relieving mental stress and building self-confidence. It is more than caring for your physical body; it also involves you paying adequate attention to your psychological and emotional well-being. The moment you are fine on the inside, everything on the outside would have to dance to the tune of what’s going on inside.

To adequately practice self-care, you should be aware of what satisfies your emotional needs; you should be aware of those things that you enjoy doing and those things that help you recuperate after a stressful day or activity. You have to understand yourself and how your body reacts amid crisis.

You should develop self-control in the face of any challenge and also, build your sense of worthiness. The moment your self-worth is thwarted, you cannot maintain your self-confidence, and ultimately, you lose your inner balance.

 

Self-care is comprehensive. It involves all things that help you maintain your health, reduce stress, and make you mentally fit.

Here are some germane reasons you should practice self-care:

·         It will help you boosts your self-esteem.

·         It will help you maintain healthy thoughts.

·         It will help you stay intrinsically motivated in the face of challenges.

·         It will boost your productivity and efficiency in all aspects of life.

·         It will help you maintain a good and healthy relationship with yourself and others.

Never allow anyone to make you feel like you are selfish when practicing self-care because self-care is not selfishness. When you do not practice self-care, you are actually robbing yourself and others around you of the joy of seeing the best version of you.

 

“It’s not selfish to love yourself, take care of yourself, and make your happiness a priority. It’s necessary.” – Mandy Hale

 



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Wednesday, August 12, 2020

You Are More Powerful Than You Think

 

You Are More Powerful Than You Think

 

You need to remind your kids every day that they are more powerful than they think. The effects of bullying leave kids feeling confused, helpless, and vulnerable. Aside from teaching your kids how to be assertive, you also need to build their self-confidence and help them improve their social skills. Let them know there are proactive actions against bullying, and no one should intimidate them.

Eleanor Roosevelt once said, “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.

Use these tips to train your kids:

#1 Ignore…

There is no need to care so much about people who doubt you or try to intimidate you. Not reacting when someone does something hurtful is an effective response to bullying. Teach your kids to ignore and keep their head high when someone tries to bully them.

#2 They should stand up for themselves…

Do you know some bullies look for victims that will not say anything at all? But if your kid is assertive, strong, and confident, no bully will walk over them.

#3 Avoid hotspots…

At times, all it takes to overcome bullying is to stay away from places where bullies hang out. The hotspots include locker rooms, vacant hallways, bathrooms, and back of the bus.

#4 Report to an adult…

Kids are vulnerable, and they keep quiet when things like this happen. Be open with your kids. Understand their fears and let them know you have their best interests at heart.


 

The greatest gift a parent can give their children is to empower them and foster core values like respect, kindness, compassion, and self-worth.

 

 

GinMan Consulting is here to help you

develop yourself and all that you deserve.

 

Visit us at www.ginmanconsulting.com

Wednesday, July 29, 2020

You! Yes, You! You Deserve All the Love


You! Yes, You! You Deserve All the Love


Why are you so uncomfortable about what makes you so powerful? For many people, the concept of self-love might bring up images of cheesy self-care books, or binge-watching your favorite series on Netflix. But as many psychologists attest, self-love and compassion are the keys to good health and mental well-being.
Most of the time when you are too hard on yourself, you need to know this; the persecutory inner voice that prevents you from celebrating your little wins and showing yourself a daily dose of self-love is the hallmark of perfectionism.

Use these four keys to improve on self-love:
#1 Self-Care
You deserve all the love and attention. It produces positive feelings and boosts your self-esteem. Taking care of yourself is also an important reminder to yourself and others that you and your needs are important.
#2 Self-Confidence
Embracing your self-confidence radiates a natural beauty that cannot be diluted or ignored. You need to love and celebrate yourself no matter what because even if you don’t fit into society’s standard, you are still awesome regardless. This is what makes you powerful, absolutely fearless, and comfortable in your skin.
#3 Self-Worth
Accepting the uniqueness of your self-worth is magical, and it starts with you. Whenever you have negative thoughts, turn them into positive affirmations. Say them with full conviction, and you will see changes in how you feel and act.
#4 Self-Control
Being in control is vital to achieving the goals you have set for yourself. It gives you inner strength and the ability to stick to your decisions.



Self-love is not being selfish. It is simply learning how to prioritize your happiness.




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Wednesday, July 22, 2020


Your Self-Worth is Not Tied to Your Achievements



You compare your success and progress with others who you think are on the same level as you or a bit above you and it distressed you?
Is this you?
You are not your achievements. I bet you have never heard this before, so it might feel unusual.
No, don’t get it wrong; your achievements are great. In fact, they are awesome. You’ve been able to publish your first book, you’ve got that scholarship, and you just gave birth to your first child. All of these are huge achievements, but they are not you.
Do you know why?
We often tell ourselves and others “you are not your failures”. Why then should your achievements be the only source of your self-confidence? We are used to tying our self-worth to our achievements, and this is why we are always affected by a failure.
If you are not your failures and you are not your achievements,
Then who are you?
#1 You are an incredible person who chose Self-care, got values, grit, brilliance, and skills.
#2 When you know this, speak positive affirmations to yourself. Say I am the best; I will succeed, look into the mirror and say them with confidence.
#3 While it is okay to feel good about your achievements, basing your entire self-worth on your success is like building your house on a foundation that will soon crash.


So, sail from the safe harbor! Discover yourself. When you know who you are, and you believe in the magic of yourself, you will be able to experience peace and also maintain self-control through life’s inevitable good and bad times.


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Wednesday, October 23, 2019

Uh-oh, Are You the Only One?


Uh-oh, Are You the Only One?

Have you ever heard of “the more the merrier”? Some agree with that notion…especially in regards to mental wellness. In some mental health scenarios, positive support is conductive to your well-being.

Harvard Business Review agrees that being the only causes anxiety.

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Let’s view the benefit of contradicting the only phenomenon. Think about the more, the crowded in a professional setting. And the more there is the less likely you will be to get the promotions, bonuses or vacation time you want. In most cases, saturation is a hindrance.

But when looking at the only through a positive lens, the only can mean unique. Being the only in the workplace can open opportunities you need to the promotion, vacations and bonuses of your dreams. Why? Because you can be the one who possess certain qualities that could possibly land the deal of a lifetime for a corporation. You will stand out because no Fortune 500 company wants ordinary.



Here’s to Boosting Your Only!

1.       Self-esteem
Let setbacks serve as comebacks. When you make a mistake, own it! Then correct it and move forward with the lesson learned. Not many are able to make it through the mistake.
2.       Self-Worth
Let the mistakes of others serve as validation that you are on the right track. Learn from others. Your self-worth lies within how others are fairly compared to you.
3.       Self-Love
Only focus on the only when you are connecting with your inner self. Your true identity is more than outside influences and circumstances. Treat yourself like you are the only one that matters without being selfish and conceited.



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Wednesday, October 9, 2019

Because Love Doesn’t Hurt


Because Love Doesn’t Hurt



“But He/She didn’t hit me!” This cover up is the number one indicator that you ARE most likely in an abusive relationship. Abuse is more than physical assaults. You can be mistreated verbally, emotionally, spiritually, financially, sexually and more!




When is “GET OUT” the best option?

#1 Respect is violated. Know the rules to respect.
#2 The first time may be a mistake. The next time is no exception.
#3 Children are involved. If you are hurt….just imagine what the abuse is doing to the children.

It’s okay to get help to “GET OUT”.

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Wednesday, July 24, 2019

Dare to be Your Best Self


Dare to be Your Best Self

Mental wellness is all about making sure you are at your best. Taking care of the “self” is the number one habit that will benefit your mental health. Be mindful of your needs and you will be open to a life of greatness.


Four Areas of the “Self” to Improve

#1 Self-Discipline
When you control how to use your strengths and weaknesses correctly, life cannot defeat you. Develop self-control to overcome different situations.

#2 Self-Love
“Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in the world.” – Lucille Ball  

ENOUGH SAID!
  



#3 Self-Esteem
Recognize your needs and put a plan in place to address them. Celebrate even the smallest achievements you make. View this video for more about confidence building at https://youtu.be/096f48rPd_A

#4 Self-Worth
I am wonderful. I will succeed. Repeat those two motivational phrases to yourself every day. Look in the mirror and tell your reflection… I A M THE BEST!!

Have you been neglecting yourself? Your mental wellness helps you be successful in all areas of your life. Move forward in your career. Develop healthy friendships and relationships. Earn the promotion or bonus you deserve at work.



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