Wednesday, May 29, 2019

Forget “13 Reasons Why” Try 3 Ways to Approach “The Suicide Talk”


Forget “13 Reasons Why” Try 3 Ways to Approach “The Suicide Talk”

Today the suicide rate of teens have increased drastically. According to USA Today (March 2018), “…suicidal thoughts and actions more than doubled from 2008 to 2015.” The mental health of youth is an important factor that needs to be addressed effectively and without shame.



I recently read an article that attributed the film and TV series “13 Reasons Why” to the increase of teen suicide. Realistically, the show cannot be the main contributing factor to the rise of teen suicide. The lack of sufficient and useful knowledge is the issue. It’s  time to look at how the conversation of suicide is approached.



#1 Research, Relate, Recite
The best way to talk about it is to know about it. The internet offers many reliable and credible sources to gain the knowledge you need about dealing with teen suicide. Try searching Amazon for some great books.

#2 Support and Success
Your local support groups and community resources can provide hope in a hopeless situation. Hearing others’ struggles and success stories can be very educational and eye opening to the reality of suicide and its effects. You can use Google to locate your nearest suicide support group. NAMI is another great community outreach resource. Remember if the first resource or support group does not fit your style, don’t give up, visit others until you find the right one.

#3 Do It The Professional Way
Don’t be ashamed to seek professional advice and guidance. Your local psychiatrist or therapist can give you the insight you need into suicide facts and prevention. The majority of EAPs and insurance will cover the fee for free. The sessions are confidential so don’t worry about who will know you attended a therapy session.



For immediate attention call the suicide prevention lifeline at 
1-800-273-TALK (8255)





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Wednesday, May 15, 2019

Do You Suffer From Mother’s Day Blues?



Do You Suffer From Mother’s Day Blues?



Love. Support. Nurture. Warmth. Heartfelt. Compassionate. Kind. Patient. Selfless. 




In a perfect world you would expect and even wish your Mother to be perfect all the time. The reality is…. Mothers are human too. Sometimes, under certain circumstances, a mother can be superwoman BUT she is not super human.

What causes the Mother’s Day Blues? Holding onto expired and undue grudges can turn a joyful Mother’s Day into a hopeless and lonely experience.



 



#1 Death

Grief over the loss of a mother can cause you to isolate yourself on the second Sunday of May. In order to enjoy the day, start filling your thoughts and feelings with all of the good memories you have about your special and precious motherly moments.

#2 Neglect

Let go of the woulda, coulda and shoulda that wasn’t present in the relationship. Not to excuse abusive and dangerous supervision that some mothers have and do provide, but you have the opportunity to live a better life. Seek the help that you need to process the neglect so that your life and joy can push forward.  

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#3 Disconnects

In some situations, the Mother was around but there was no bond. Lack of communication and quality time can ruin anticipations to spend time with Mothers. A more positive approach is to surround yourself with people who offer the type of motherly affection you desire. The most important thing is to connect with positivity and support.

  

 

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