The Irresponsible Man >
The Irresponsible Man neglects responsibilities, bills, chores, and anything else that is on a grown man's level. Ladies, he is looking for someone who will play or (let's keep it real) BE his servant and provider. Let's look at an example.
There's this young man named Kelvin. He's in his mid 30s, handsome, and has a pretty decent job as a truck driver. The only problem with him is his poor ability to take care of his business.
He can't keep a car, apartment or bills on because he doesn't pay anything on time. My girlfriend thought he was a good catch since he is sooo handsome and has a steady income. Only problem is that she found out she had another child instead of a partner. She was responsible for all of his business and hers. She was the everything of the household: the cook, the maid, the bill payer, the appointment maker, the banker, the chauffeur, etc., etc. The problem with that is she has a full time job, two children from a previous relationship who are in school, takes courses online and has her own share of bills, car note and whatever else.
Eventually, she got tired of him even though he gave her the money to take care of the household. The only thing he had to worry about was his beer, cigarettes and hanging out with the homeboys. My girlfriend had no time or sanity for herself. She was taking care of TWO grown ups.
She tried to hang in there but got too overwhelmed. She was grouchy to the kids. She was not able to take care of her personal beauty needs. She began to fall behind on her courses. Work was unnecessarily stressful. She actually prayed to God to relieve her of the burdens.
So after two long years of his selfish irresponsible company, he finally left her for another woman. The irony was that he blamed the turmoil of the relationship on her bad attitude that his lack of concerned caused. He was too selfish to just take some of the load off of her shoulders and actually take care of his own business. The nerves of him!
But today, he is actually begging her through text messages and voice mails to take him back. He probably still does not recognize what the real issue of the relationship is because he is so IRRESPONSIBLE. He realizes that no other woman can handle the BULL**** that he took her through and that he didn't appreciate her at all. Little did he know that he did her a HUGE favor by leaving and she is now FREE!!
More to come......#Many Men
Sunday, March 10, 2013
Friday, March 1, 2013
Many Men: The Eye Opener (Introduction)
This Many Men blog is not about a female who has had numerous companions or a census count of the number of males in the United States. But it is a supposedly eye opening jolt for women as well as men. It's a synopsis of the different personalities of the various men that a woman tends to date, marry, or fantasize about hooking up with.
It's a description of who you think you are falling in love with, have fallen in love with or want to fall in love with. The sad part about relationships after the fun is over is that he wasn't even close to who you thought he was, and if you had had an inkling of a clue, then hours, days, weeks, months, or even years of your life would NOT have been wasted.
This Many Men blog series is also useful for men because maybe just maybe this can be an eye opener to you also. Which of these Many Men can you identify with? Wow! Is that really you? Is that why you are still single, in and out of relationships or in a failing marriage? IDENTIFY, TARGET and AIM to change because what you think attracted her is the same entity to cause the life changing breakup. And then what happens? Once you have lost that true love of your life, you realize a little too late what the problem was......YOU!
So who are some of the Many Men that embark upon the female specimen? Here's a sneak peek!
# The WOMANIZER>
He's the man who thinks everyone wants him and he can get anyone he wants. And he usually does get what he wants. But ladies there is a price to be paid and sacrifices to be made. He knows how to play the game.
# MAMA's BOY>
He still has the majority of his possessions at his mother's house. But shacks up with you and runs home to Mama when things get tight or too serious. He's the man whose mother still has his bedroom open for when he is ready to come back home. And...... Mommy thinks you are not good enough for her baby.
WANT MORE OF WHO THE MANY MEN ARE?
STAY TUNED.............
It's a description of who you think you are falling in love with, have fallen in love with or want to fall in love with. The sad part about relationships after the fun is over is that he wasn't even close to who you thought he was, and if you had had an inkling of a clue, then hours, days, weeks, months, or even years of your life would NOT have been wasted.
This Many Men blog series is also useful for men because maybe just maybe this can be an eye opener to you also. Which of these Many Men can you identify with? Wow! Is that really you? Is that why you are still single, in and out of relationships or in a failing marriage? IDENTIFY, TARGET and AIM to change because what you think attracted her is the same entity to cause the life changing breakup. And then what happens? Once you have lost that true love of your life, you realize a little too late what the problem was......YOU!
So who are some of the Many Men that embark upon the female specimen? Here's a sneak peek!
# The WOMANIZER>
He's the man who thinks everyone wants him and he can get anyone he wants. And he usually does get what he wants. But ladies there is a price to be paid and sacrifices to be made. He knows how to play the game.
# MAMA's BOY>
He still has the majority of his possessions at his mother's house. But shacks up with you and runs home to Mama when things get tight or too serious. He's the man whose mother still has his bedroom open for when he is ready to come back home. And...... Mommy thinks you are not good enough for her baby.
WANT MORE OF WHO THE MANY MEN ARE?
STAY TUNED.............
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