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The Irresponsible Man >

    The Irresponsible Man neglects responsibilities, bills, chores, and anything else that is on a grown man's level. Ladies, he is looking for someone who will play or (let's keep it real) BE his servant and provider. Let's  look at an example.
    There's this young man named Kelvin. He's in his mid 30s, handsome, and has a pretty decent job as a truck driver. The only problem with him is his poor ability to take care of his business.
     He can't keep a car, apartment or bills on because he doesn't pay anything on time. My girlfriend thought he was a good catch since he is sooo handsome and has a steady income. Only problem is that she found out she had another child instead of a partner. She was responsible for all of his business and hers. She was the everything of the household: the cook, the maid, the bill payer, the appointment maker, the banker, the chauffeur, etc., etc. The problem with that is she has a full time job, two children from a previous relationship who are in school, takes courses online and has her own share of bills, car note and whatever else.
    Eventually, she got tired of him even though he gave her the money to take care of the household. The only thing he had to worry about was his beer, cigarettes and hanging out with the homeboys. My girlfriend had no time or sanity for herself. She was taking care of  TWO grown ups.
    She tried to hang in there but got too overwhelmed. She was grouchy to the kids. She was not able to take care of her personal beauty needs. She began to fall behind on her courses. Work was unnecessarily stressful. She actually prayed to God to relieve her of the burdens.
    So after two long years of his selfish irresponsible company, he finally left her for another woman. The irony was that he blamed the turmoil of the relationship on her bad attitude that his lack of concerned caused. He was too selfish to just take some of the load off of her shoulders and actually take care of his own business. The nerves of him!
    But today, he is actually begging her through text messages and voice mails to take him back. He probably still does not recognize what the real issue of the relationship is because he is so IRRESPONSIBLE. He realizes that no other woman can handle the BULL**** that he took her through and that he didn't appreciate her at all. Little did he know that he did her a HUGE favor by leaving and she is now FREE!!

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