One Time Trauma Equals The Perfect Storm

One Time Trauma Equals The Perfect Storm

            The sound of the word trauma can easily bring chills to your bones especially if you have been the victim of a traumatic event. If you experience a horrific situation only once, does that classify as trauma? It absolutely does! Some one time traumas can be a natural disaster such as hurricanes or other storms, a car accident, rape, or burglary.

                                                                

Within the mayhem of trauma you can turn the tragedy into a perfect picture of success. SAY WHAT??!! How can a storm equal anything but terror?

Cheers to the Perfect Storm

Here's how to survive a hurricane of trauma!

Category 1: Optimism

Instead of responding with a fight or flight reaction, stop and think. Think about the numerous blessings you continue to have after your frightful event. You are a survivor and should celebrate because you have made it through.

Category 2. Move forward:

It is easy to freeze up after an experience with trauma. If and when you stop living your life you have let fear take control of you. I know it's easier said than done but you GOT THIS!

Category 3. Advocate:

Take a stand against whatever your tragic situation may be. Shed light and understanding on your experience so that others can see your braveness and power. Empowering others results in your own empowerment.

Are you clinging to the stress or anxiety related to a one time traumatic event? Are you ready to recover your normality and power over your life? Let's talk about it!

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Modern Relationship Rules

Modern Relationship Rules

Building   positive relationships is the most sought after desire for today's society. Good relationships are at the forefront for feeling confident about life and future plans to succeed. Good relationships provide the support and love necessary for a balanced and fulfilling lifestyle.

Many people do not understand the dynamics of building and sustaining positive relationships in modern day society. To develop the relationship that meets today's standards three components must be mastered. All relationships need communication, compromise, and cherish.

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3 Cs of Relationships

Rule #1- Effective communication

According to habitsforwellbeing.com, "the ability to communicate effectively is an essential skill in today's world" (www.habitsforwellbeing.com). Communication is not just what is being said during the conversation. It also involves listening to the needs of others.

Rule #2- The Art of Compromise

Compromising does not mean giving up what you want to satisfy the need of another. A good relationship involves give and take. Each person must give up something in return to receiving the opportunity to keep the thing they desire.

Rule #3- Cherish every aspect whether good or bad

Love for better or worst. Adore your loved one. Yes, there will be characteristics and behaviors that you  yourself would never think of having but embrace those differences. Show appreciation and cherish the flaws and the favorites.

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If you do not want your relationship to be in ruins, you have to follow the rules. Connect with your friends, family, or flames with a modern touch of direction.

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Wishing You the Best in Success,

Virginia xoxoxoxoxo

When the New Year is Old News

When the New Year is Old News

            Happy New Year! It’s a rejoicing moment when you know that the new year is a time to begin new things. But guess what, that tradition of making new year’s resolutions is so OLD. Why do you have to wait for the new year to start transforming your life?

            Every day, every week, every month should be your opportunity to evaluate yourself and your life to make adjustments that are needed for success and happiness. The truth of the matter is if you wait for several months until New Year to get it together, it will be so far- fetched that it will take a lot of strength and effort to get on track. That’s why New Year’s resolutions fail. You have waited too long to decide to make a change.

            Stop waiting for a New Year to transition into a new life. Here are some steps to make regular tune ups of yourself and your life versus waiting several months to begin.

KEY #1: GOALS ARE GOLDEN

Short term goals ultimately lead to the accomplishment of long term goals. Don’t wait for the New Year to have your golden moment. Make every day, every week, and every month phenomenal.

KEY #2: NO PLAN= NO PROGRESS

Plan and schedule weekly evaluations on your progress towards your goals. In order to stay on track with any goal or resolution, it’s important to regularly look at one’s self and life to determine what and how to move forward.

KEY #3: ADJUSTMENTS

Make it a routine part of life to make the necessary adjustments. No one said change was easy, fast or simple. If you commit to making change a normal behavior in your life, it will soon become effortless.

OUT WITH THE OLD AND IN WITH A NEW LIFE needs to be a reoccurring them throughout your daily interactions. If you are stuck with the old and desire a new way of thinking about yourself and your life, PLEASE contact GinMan Consulting for an initial assessment.

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Wishing You the Best in Success,

Virginia xoxoxoxoxo