Wednesday, April 15, 2020

Uh-Oh! You Are Dealing With Triggers of Covid the Wrong Way





People who experience traumatic events sometimes find substance use as a way to deal with the situation. Drugs and/or alcohol furnish negative coping strategies in reaction to dramatic situations. Now with the horrific experience of COVID19, substance use may be the comforting shoulder for many. When dealing with a traumatic event, evaluate if you want a positive outcome or negative outcome. Choosing to use drugs to cope will normally result in negative consequences.


Positive Coping Strategies That Equal Positive Results

Distractors Alcohol and drugs are distractors but they keep you from living a healthy and prosperous life. Instead occupy your thoughts and time with positive distractors from reexperiencing trauma. Participate in exercising to your favorite song, cleaning an area of your house that is cluttered or declutter your mind by journaling, drawing or art work.

Interactors Being around positivity can brighten your mood and decrease thoughts of using substances such as drugs and alcohol. Spend time with a positive friend or family member via FaceTime or Duo or talk to your next best friend, AKA your pet.

Counselors Sometimes it takes a professional to change your perspective or outlook on a traumatic situation. Sometimes your feelings and emotions are private and you do not want to share with others who know you. Seek a therapist to confide in and get advice.

Remember… just because a situation yields a negative pathway does not mean your response to dealing with the situation has to be negative. Negative coping will only make negativity the continuing pattern.





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Wednesday, March 25, 2020

(Guest Blogger Traylan Wilturner) Resting During a Pandemic


Resting During a Pandemic

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As we all know the COVID-19 has made its debut all around the world. This virus has caused sore throats and high fevers in more than 400 thousand people leading to over 20 thousand deaths. This more than enough information to cause panic. Although there’s yet to be a cure, there has been more than 100 thousand recoveries from the virus. (These numbers are available on worldometers.info) Are these odds enough to give a sense of relief and calm the rest of the population during what seems like a very scary time?

Just Breathe and Quarantine

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-Don’t stress. Becoming ill is often something that’s out of our control, but we do have control over our hygiene. Washing our hands should already be part of our natural duties. Do you really keep track of how often you do? Sure after using the restroom or touching something disgusting. Maybe this task should be done more often especially during a world spread virus attack. If practicing good hygiene is already a part of your routine then why stress it?

-Social Distancing. I’m sure we’ve all been told to stay at home, try not to be in public when not necessary and to keep at least a 6 feet distance from others. Not only will these very important steps help you with avoiding this virus, but also allows you some “Me Time”. So basically this is the perfect time for you to avoid whatever drama and sickness others shall bring!

-Social Media. What else is there to do while stuck at home? Turning to Instagram, Facebook and Twitter may add a lot more stress to the situation than you may realize. These outlets are full of fake news, nasty opinions and scare stories. If you need information or updates on what’s happening what an accredited news broadcast. If you need entertainment to feed you boredom try exercising, reading a book or even that “to do list” you haven’t had time to get to.


Don’t allow this pandemic to stress you.

Embrace it.
Believe you can handle it.
Believe that you will be ok.
-Maria Shriver

Do Not Fear The Inevitable!





Wednesday, March 11, 2020

What Would a Good Night Sleep Mean to You?



What Would a Good Night Sleep Mean to You?


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It’s never a productive day when you don’t get enough sleep the night before. You toss and turn all night or you may even seemingly slumber all night, but still have a sluggish and tiresome day. Well, it may be time to have a medical evaluation from your family doctor.

Why don’t you sleep well at night? Often a lack of sleep is attributed to a poor quality mattress or caffeine intake, but there are a few other alternatives that can be considered.

#1 Narcolepsy
If you feel a decrease ability to control your wake-sleep cycle, you may have symptoms of narcolepsy. Consult a physician. Your quality of sleep can really affect you ability to function your best during the day.

#2 Anxiety
Excessive worry and fear can keep you from having a peaceful sleep. Consult a therapist for a thorough assessment. Anxiety will interfere with your normal daily activities or tasks. You will get less done with a full day of work.

#3 Restless Leg Syndrome
Experiencing an irresistible urge to move your leg can disrupt sleep. Don’t wait around, head to your physician for a clear diagnosis. Restless Leg Syndrome occurs frequently while sitting or laying down, which is the prominent position while you sleep. Regaining comfort in your legs can make sleep a lot more pleasant.


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Take care of yourself by getting adequate rest. When your body is in rest mode it is rejuvenating to function effectively during the hours you are awake.


No Sleep = An Unproductive Day
Make yourself and rest a priority!
  




If you want to be your best you need adequate rest.
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Wednesday, February 26, 2020

(Guest Blogger- Brad Krause) Ways to Get The Rest You Need for Optimal Mental Health


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Ways to Get The Rest You Need for Optimal Mental Health

The connection between mental health and sleep might seem obvious. After all, insomnia can make you grumpy and unfocused, which can lead to a host of other issues. However, only recently have scientists taken a serious look at how a lack of sleep might cause psychological problems, like depression, ADHD, and anxiety. Along those same lines, those issues can exacerbate insomnia. Read on as we explore these linked issues, and what you can do to take care of yourself.

The Awfulness of Insomnia

Insomnia is the inability to fall asleep and stay asleep. While many people wrestle with restlessness on occasion, insomniacs can’t get their minds or bodies to quiet down multiple nights per week. Chronic sleep deprivation can affect your memory and mood. Just as problematic, not getting enough sleep can lead to weight gain, high blood pressure, balance issues, and leave you more susceptible to illnesses; all of these can take a toll on your mental health.

What’s Your (Sleep) Style?

Thankfully, there are many ways you can beat the beast of sleeplessness, and you don’t have to resort to over-the-counter or prescription medications to make it happen.

One often overlooked reason for poor sleep is a bad mattress. If your mattress is lumpy or sagging, it can make you uncomfortable, but even if it’s relatively new, you might be sleeping on the wrong surface. There are mattresses available for each sleeping position, including combination sleepers. The key is to research before choosing a mattress, in order to make sure you’re getting the right amount of support while you sleep.

Count Threads, Not Sheep

Comfort doesn’t come solely from your sleep surface. You should also evaluate the materials that are actually touching your body overnight. For instance, if you have allergies, Cozy Earth notes silk is a great fabric selection because of its naturally hypoallergenic qualities.

If you are a hot sleeper, which many people are, look for sheets and a pillowcase that can help keep you cool and wick moisture away from your body. Also use an absorbent mattress pad if you suffer from night sweating. Contemplate what might make you more comfortable, and adjust your bedding appropriately.

Bring in Some Sleep Aids

In addition to your tactile senses, your sense of sound can also interfere with sleep. The sound of a ticking clock, barking dog, and even a snoring partner might be disturbing you. Earplugs are one option, but if you have children or are afraid you will not hear your alarm, consider listening to pink noise. Time asserts that this gentle sound can help improve overall sleep quality and boost memory retention.

If your room is too humid, it can quickly become a breeding ground for mold and dust. This can cause lung irritation which not only is unhealthy, but also can make sleeping difficult. If you bring in a dehumidifier into your bedroom, it can remove the excess moisture and improve the quality of your sleep.

Change Up Habits

Once you have eliminated environmental factors, consider your actions. If stress starts to get to you, try a few natural tension relievers like deep breathing or meditation (or combine both). You might also find that simply smiling can improve your mood and melt the stress away. Additionally, journaling is a known emotional outlet that can help you purge negative thoughts.

What you consume also plays a role in your ability to sleep. Drinking coffee after 4 or 5 PM, for example, can leave caffeine lingering in your bloodstream. A heavy dinner can bloat your stomach, and even a glass of wine, which you might drink to ease into a state of relaxation, can backfire.

Finally, if you aren’t exercising during the day, you should. Maintaining an exercise routine can help stabilize your hormones, the ever-fluctuating chemicals in the body that control everything, including sleep.

If you’re not really sure what is keeping you up at night, consider adding a sleep diary app to your smartphone. Track your habits for a while and see what correlations you notice.

When you already suffer from depression, anxiety, self-esteem issues, or other emotional problem, your inability to conk out can create chaos. Try adjusting your bedding and lifestyle to see what helps. Chronic insomnia may point to a seemingly unrelated health condition, so talk to your doctor if you need additional assistance.

Written by: Brad Krause


Wednesday, February 12, 2020

What Would You Change to Live Your Dream Life?


What Would You Change to Live Your Dream Life?

Well, you do have to change some things if you want some things to change.




Those old habits that are keeping you back... have to go! It’s time to reach for higher skies.
It can be things you are doing that are not working or things you are saying to yourself that are not working. 
Maybe The People you are around are not working or Things you are seeing are not working. 



It’s February 2020 and it’s way over the 21 times or days to change a habit rule. 
It’s over 6 weeks into the new year and I hope you have finally made some changes to bad habits. 



3 ways to change those ugly habits that are holding you back from more vacations, more promotions, more bonuses, more raises, more family time and more me time: 


1st of all- the key denominator is you! You have to make a change.


#1 Recognize the habit as good or bad.

All habits are not bad, some are good.
When dealing with bad habits, you have to recognize what outcome you want. Since habits are etched in our mind, it’s hard to recognize that it’s not working. But when you focus on your goal, you realize the habit is not getting you to your goal. Then, You are more likely to recognize the need to change and change it. 


When dealing with good habits, the change is to amp it up! Use it as a strength and to your advantage.
Too often we put all of our energy and focus on the negative. 


#2 Replace the bad habits. 
Once you identify a habit as good or bad, then you know what to do with it. You can’t just say hey I’m never going to do that again because it has been a part of your normal thinking pattern. So what do you do? Replace the bad habit with a new good habit or an already identified good habit. 


#3 Relive the good habits. 
You have to see yourself in action. Visualize and imagine yourself actually living in and doing the new desired habit. Having an accountability partner helps with putting the new habit in practice because your partner will hold you to your word. But not only should you see yourself In the new habit, you should see yourself successfully accomplishing the new habit.
  


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Wednesday, January 29, 2020

Turn it Around! Your IT Forecast Isn’t Cloudy.


Turn it Around! Your IT Forecast Isn’t Cloudy.


  

Visualization and actuality goes hand in hand. Attach your name to what you want in life. You have to  s e e  it in your life. You have to s p e a k  it into your life. And then IT will become your reality 




What is “IT”?

    1.    Your IT is determined by what direction you want your life to go in. Setting realistic goals has a lot to do with direction. Without a plan, you have no idea of what you are working towards.
  
    2.    Your IT is developed from the persistence you implement into working on your goals. Okay, so you have already set a direction and goals. The next step is to take persistent and consistent actions to bring the IT into fruition. 

    3.    Your IT is driven by the purpose you see in your life. Now, why exactly are you aiming for that IT. A substantial reason why you want IT gives you the vision and stamina that is needed to go all in and make your IT a reality. 




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NOW what is IT you want out of life. Consider the type of person you want the world, your family and yourself to see in the future.  Finding your path in life seems hard because you struggle with setting instead of settling for your IT in life. 

  


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Wednesday, January 15, 2020

Don’t Let Other’s Expectations Side Track You From Your 2020 Goals!


Don’t Let Other’s Expectations Side Track You From Your 2020 Goals!





Of course, quitting is always an option but do you want the results that quitting produces (nothing) or the results that being persistent produces (success)? Achieving goals are not a quick process so be persistent and celebrate each step that you are closer to your 2020 goals.

Others always expect you to lose... stats always predict the worst...

This is what others expect from you: 

• 75% of people will abandon their 2020 goals by Feb 1st. :/
• 92% won't ever achieve them  :(
• 5.3B people in the world will give up on their goals in the next three weeks and 6.4B people will fail to achieve them in 2020.

But this is what you should expect:

• 100%  win, win, win 
• 100% completion
• 110% hard work 
• 0% quitter 




  

Steps into WINS with these 3 tips:

#1 Be p o s i t i v e ! Stay focused on the wins, not the setbacks you experience to get there. 

“Winning isn't everything, it's the only thing.”
Vince Lombardi



#2 Be prepared! Completion of goals don’t just randomly happen. You have to intentionally plan out an action plan to attack your goals. 

“The key is not the will to win… everybody has that.
It is the will to prepare to win that is important.”
Bobby Knight



#3  Be persistent. Winners never quit, they just change up their moves. If something is not working as planned, that’s not a failure. The next smart move is to change up the plan of action. 

“I hated every minute of training, but I said,
‘Don’t quit. Suffer now and live the rest of your life as a champion.’”
Muhammad Ali




2020 is the Year of The Go- Getters.